In the subtle comments that make your way, in the way that your being a woman or a man is considered a hurdle in your career growth, in the way that a certain task always comes your way because of your gender; or in the way that it is taken for granted that you cannot handle a particular task cause you're a woman or a man. All these are examples of sexism. And sexism in the workplace? Yes, it exists. You know it does.
What is sexism really? Sexism is discrimination made against a person based on their gender. Therefore closely related to feminism. Maybe a subtle comment here and there or a project that you'd hoped you'd get goes to someone else for no apparent reason that you can point to. Something that makes you feel that if you were the other gender you would not have to face the ordeals that you're facing right then. And when that feeling creeps in, it might be a good idea to take a moment to comprehend whether you're a victim of sexism. In the article that follows, we shall go through workplace ethics and the most important factors that determine whether employees or the company is using means to discriminate based on a person's gender.
The Different Facets of Sexism
It has been tough for women to break away from their traditional roles as homemakers and make a mark for themselves as career oriented women, those who are capable of handling the work force as well. While it has been tough for them to break away, it has been even tougher for their male counterparts to accept them as individuals, capable of working alongside them and reaping the same benefits. So the trend that has been seen is that of women becoming victims of sexism and having to deal with its effects.
Yet, an interesting concept that has to be pointed out about sexism is that even though sexism has been something of a woman's issue and women employees have seen to live through it more often than their male counterparts, in recent times, male employees have also reported of being singled out and discriminated against. What would constitute as sexism in the workplace and what are some of the ways to deal with employee discrimination? Let us touch upon this issue in the following paragraphs.
What Constitutes as Sexism at Work?
Here are some of the traits that would make you a victim of sexism at work:
- Given less pay than the members of the other gender even though you're doing the same task.
- Constantly losing out on promotions and other opportunities like company conferences based on your gender.
- Derogatory comments being made about your gender.
- Your worth and capabilities being decided on the basis of how you look rather than your work.
- Maternity/paternity leaves not provided for.
- Made to feel like you have to compromise on your ideals and values or perform sexual favors to gain success.
- Always being given menial tasks that do not allow you the chance to prove your worth.
Dealing with Sexism at Work
Many times people who are being discriminated against simply do nothing. They feel that it is better to turn a deaf ear to the issues and let things be as they are rather than say something which might prove detrimental to their career or image (they might be looked upon as someone who only complains). But instead of doing that, here are a few ways of dealing with sexism at work.
- One does not have to take on an aggressive stance to be heard. Learn to be polite and smart about it and you'll find that your work is being done.
- If you're the one who's getting stuck with a menial task at all times, then suggest that it is only fair that everyone takes turns in doing it. Say something like the experience will help everyone grow.
- Learn the tricks of communication in the workplace and get yourself heard at the next meeting. If that is the only way things are going to happen for you, then so be it. Force yourself to come out of the comfort zone and say what you feel. The newfound change will make people take a back seat and listen to you.
- If there are derogatory comments being passed about a coworker based on their sex then be firm and get it across that you do not like, and will not tolerate this kind of behavior. Saying something like 'it makes you feel uncomfortable' is always a good way to get the point across.
Sexism at work is not a simple issue that can be solved in a jiffy. The very nature of it can make it an impossible task. But understanding what it is, what it means and employing ways to not fall victim of the same is something that only you can do. And it is something that you owe to yourself. Don't you think?